(picture* "to be in Jail" is the state of the soul)
“I could be better” - is the mechanism of not accepting yourself. It`s built on how you appreciate youself concerning people around you. And they will always be not satisfied with you until they see reflections of their pain, fears and aggression in you as in a mirror.
When we do not fulfill other people's expectations they become dissatisfied with us. For some reason we do not believe ourselves but their opinion becomes more important for us. And we start to think like “I could be better”. I could get more attention from the outside. I could go even further away from himself. I could do anything for others ... I want them to be pleased with me.... because I already do not care for myself at all... I gave up... I betrayed myself... betrayed for so long that I even forgot. And now the only authority for me it is other people's perception of me.
When we put on the authority of someone else but yourself. We no longer trust ourselves and fall into the trap – “I cannot fulfill someone else's expectations.”
You can never fulfill other people expectations ... the Others will ALWAYS be dissatisfied with something . As the cause is within them. .. but not inside you!! When you cannot take a breath in and exhale for its own sake, .. just to be... be yourself.... sitting on the beach... on the swing .. standing in the market among a crowd of passers-by ....then you become modeling clay in the hands of other people's reflections. You give yourself to reflections. You say: I could be better for them ... .. to make them feel better.
You ask yourself what should I do to fulfill their wishes? ... but YOU completely forget about yourself. If the sun forgets about itself .. it goes out. Because it's THE SUN .. IT IS ! If it would consider how the best to shine for creatures and planets... it will run on space searching of a better LOCATION. One day the SUN will say: “I could light better!” - and will fall into depression!
But everything outside is just a reflection of you from inside. It's You are the One who wants to feel better. So you are trying to "appease" the reflections .
And you say:
- When everybody outside calm down I will not see reflections of my pain in their claims to me. I'll be happy then ...
(Nataliia Severska (Allayae)
“I could be better” - is the mechanism of not accepting yourself. It`s built on how you appreciate youself concerning people around you. And they will always be not satisfied with you until they see reflections of their pain, fears and aggression in you as in a mirror.
When we do not fulfill other people's expectations they become dissatisfied with us. For some reason we do not believe ourselves but their opinion becomes more important for us. And we start to think like “I could be better”. I could get more attention from the outside. I could go even further away from himself. I could do anything for others ... I want them to be pleased with me.... because I already do not care for myself at all... I gave up... I betrayed myself... betrayed for so long that I even forgot. And now the only authority for me it is other people's perception of me.
When we put on the authority of someone else but yourself. We no longer trust ourselves and fall into the trap – “I cannot fulfill someone else's expectations.”
You can never fulfill other people expectations ... the Others will ALWAYS be dissatisfied with something . As the cause is within them. .. but not inside you!! When you cannot take a breath in and exhale for its own sake, .. just to be... be yourself.... sitting on the beach... on the swing .. standing in the market among a crowd of passers-by ....then you become modeling clay in the hands of other people's reflections. You give yourself to reflections. You say: I could be better for them ... .. to make them feel better.
You ask yourself what should I do to fulfill their wishes? ... but YOU completely forget about yourself. If the sun forgets about itself .. it goes out. Because it's THE SUN .. IT IS ! If it would consider how the best to shine for creatures and planets... it will run on space searching of a better LOCATION. One day the SUN will say: “I could light better!” - and will fall into depression!
But everything outside is just a reflection of you from inside. It's You are the One who wants to feel better. So you are trying to "appease" the reflections .
And you say:
- When everybody outside calm down I will not see reflections of my pain in their claims to me. I'll be happy then ...
(Nataliia Severska (Allayae)
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